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What Can I Expect When I Open An Estate?

2013-08-16T16:24:16-04:00August 12th, 2013|Estate Planning and Administration|

When a loved one passes away, there are so many things to attend to. There is the emotional loss, which is first and foremost. Next,  practical considerations …wrapping up final expenses, closing bank accounts, stopping the newspaper delivery, and on and on.

When you visit an attorney’s office to begin the process of carrying out your loved-one’s wishes and opening an estate, you are likely not at your best. You are dealing with a myriad of emotions and sea of details. Your attorney should help you through this initial stage in opening the estate – but should not overwhelm you with […]

What’s The Use?

2017-11-15T15:59:12-05:00August 1st, 2013|Estate Planning and Administration|

People often can be heard saying “What’s the use,” whether it is out of frustration or anger. It may be out of exhaustion or desperation. “What’s the use?” It’s more of an exclamation than a question. When it comes to planning your estate, “What’s the use” has no place.

“Why? What’s the use? My family will get everything anyway, right? “

Maybe. Maybe not. It depends.

“What’s the use? The Government will just take it all when I die. . .why bother with planning?”

The Government can certainly be one of your biggest beneficiaries if you don’t plan well. Just look at the Onasis […]

Taking Care of Your Parents:

2017-11-15T15:59:12-05:00July 15th, 2013|Taking Care of Your Parents: My Own Story|

My brothers and I continue to try to make Mom’s life comfortable. We can’t always seem to find the right ‘mix’ between comfort and safety. We want her to use a walker and she has finally begun using one from time to time.

”Except when I take the dog for a walk,” she says. “I hold the leash and he holds me up.” We’re not exactly thrilled with that response.

We now have someone in her house seven days a week. She wasn’t exactly thrilled with us when we insisted on seven days a week. It was less than two years ago when we began sending […]

Creating A Monster!

2017-11-15T15:59:12-05:00July 15th, 2013|Abuse, Attorney in Fact, Power of Attorney Abuse|

 

The power of attorney document that dear Aunt Gertrude signed, appointing her niece Milly as her Attorney-In-Fact (often referred to as her ‘power of attorney’), was drafted to help protect Aunt Gertrude. She was getting older and needed help with day-to-day tasks. She also needed help with doing the ‘chores’ of life – paying her bills, sorting through the mail, etc.

The power of attorney document is the perfect way to protect Aunt Gertrude. Sort of. Let’s say it can be the perfect document to help Aunt Gertrude. In order for Aunt Gertrude to be protected as she wishes, Milly must […]

How to Prevent Power of Attorney Abuse

2017-11-15T15:59:12-05:00July 2nd, 2013|Power of Attorney Abuse|

“The best defense is a good offense.”  This saying translates to many sports, and most of us have heard that statement at one time or another. When thinking of ways to assist our seasoned citizens, we can apply the same maxim – the best defense is a good offense. Let me use Aunt Gertrude and her niece, Milly, to explain.

When Aunt Gertrude chose her niece Milly as her Attorney In Fact, often referred to as “her Power of Attorney,” she gave a great deal of power and authority to Milly. Milly could write checks for Aunt Gertrude, she could withdraw money from […]

Your Mother Fell

2017-11-15T15:59:12-05:00May 9th, 2013|Taking Care of Your Parents: My Own Story|

“Your mother fell,” was how the phone call started. When you hear that, and you know that your 88-year-old mother is not as sturdy as she once was, you are concerned.
As my brothers and I and our extended families try to make the best decisions for Mom, we have also been trying to remember her consistent request to us: “Please let me stay in my own house.” So we struggle between safety and her peace of mind. At some point, safety wins out over Mother’s own peace of mind. But where is that line?
Too often, the line is […]

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