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So Aunt Gertrude Needs Help . . . ?

2017-11-15T15:59:38-05:00December 15th, 2011|Power of Attorney Abuse|

Most of us have an “Aunt Gertrude” who needs someone to help look after them.  Perhaps she’s a little less spry than she used to be. Perhaps she is less clear than she used to be when you talk to her. You wouldn’t want her to have to live in a nursing home, but you can’t have her living in your home.  So what do we do?

That’s where Aunt Gertrude’s niece Milly comes in. Milly is willing to help, and will do anything she can to help dear Aunt Gertrude. And when we’re at the Christmas dinner with the […]

A Limited Power of Attorney

2017-11-15T15:59:38-05:00November 10th, 2011|Power of Attorney Abuse|

A power of attorney document can be drafted without limitations, such is a durable power of attorney. It can also be drafted with limitations, a limited power of attorney. There are advantages to a limited power of attorney. I will discuss a few of the more common limited powers which I have seen.

First, an Attorney-in-Fact’s powers can be limited by time. If you know you will be out of the country for a certain amount of time, the power of attorney document can state that it is valid “until I return to Cumberland County sui juris (in my right mind).” […]

When Caring Isn’t What Mom Needs

2017-11-15T15:59:38-05:00November 7th, 2011|Taking Care of Your Parents: My Own Story|

My mom is doing well living in her own home, using her cane rarely – her walker even less. She hasn’t had her hearing aids in for years, but she manages. My brothers and I are always talking, always scheming of ways to help mom. . .then when we run our “idea du jour” by her, she often tells us “No thank you,” whether it’s replacing her old chair or suggesting some new device which will help make her life easier.

We care about Mom. We want her golden years to be enjoyable. But our form of caring, with all our […]

Revoking Power of Attorney

2017-11-15T15:59:39-05:00September 22nd, 2011|Power of Attorney Abuse|

Suppose we have to remove an attorney in fact. Suppose that Aunt Gertrude’s attorney in fact, her niece Milly, has been less-than-honest with her Aunt Gertrude. How does Aunt Gertrude go about removing her? Every state has different laws, so your Aunt Gertrude will have to be sure that she is taking actions which work for her situation and in her jurisdiction.

The first thing to know is this: You may remove your attorney in fact as long as you are in your right mind (sui juris).  In civil law the phrase sui juris indicates legal competence, the capacity to […]

Taking Control without Taking Control

2017-11-15T15:59:39-05:00September 15th, 2011|Taking Care of Your Parents: My Own Story|

Your parents took care of you — wiped your nose, helped you with your homework, looked for a good college or apartment with you, and maybe even walked you down the aisle. So now that they are older, perhaps more feeble and well past their income earning years, they need your help. No, they don’t need help with their homework, but they might need help in finding a good apartment — that is, long term care facility. And the needs of one set of parents are different from the needs of the next set of parents, just like when […]

Power of Attorney – When Is It A Bad Idea?

2017-11-15T15:59:52-05:00August 17th, 2011|Power of Attorney Abuse|

Suppose your Aunt Gertrude can use help with around the house. She isn’t as spry as she used to be. She likes living in her own house, but she needs some help. Physically. She needs help at the grocery store. Some days, her rheumatism is so bad that she doesn’t want to go. She could use a helping hand.

So her niece Milly offers to lend a hand. “Isn’t it nice of Milly to give up her Saturday afternoon to help poor, sweet Aunt Gertrude?” The neighbors all think it’s so sweet.

And it probably is. Most of us love helping our […]

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