Power of Attorney Abuse

Troubled by POA Abuse? Hear the outrageous stories we never saw coming, as well as what to do when they’re happening to you. You aren’t alone anymore.

Power of Attorney: Sword vs. Shield

2017-11-15T15:59:12-05:00May 9th, 2013|Abuse, Power of Attorney Abuse|

When does the power of attorney become a sword instead of a shield? It is clearly designed to be a shield to those who have it. Too often, however, the attorney-in-fact appointed in the power of attorney document becomes inflated with the power and authority he or she possesses. Consider these examples of abusing the power of attorney document:
• A daughter, towering over her mother and screaming at her, “You can’t invite anyone to hunt on your property! I have the Power!”
• A son sells his father’s house to himself using the power of attorney document. The house is valued […]

How to Limit the Power of Attorney

2017-11-15T15:59:13-05:00November 20th, 2012|Power of Attorney Abuse|

A power of attorney document, as we have seen with Aunt Gertrude and her niece Milly, is a powerful document. Milly can do a world of good for her dear Aunt Gertrude, or she can misuse her power to enrich herself.

What if Aunt Gertrude decides that she wants to limit Milly’s ability to act on her behalf? Suppose Aunt Gertrude is concerned that she may be tempting Milly too much by giving Milly her checkbook. What can Aunt Gertrude do?

Aunt Gertrude can grant her niece a limited power of attorney.A limited power of attorney, as the name suggests, has some […]

Your “Power of Attorney” Did What?! How to Keep Your Attorney In Fact in Check

2017-11-15T15:59:13-05:00September 27th, 2012|Power of Attorney Abuse|

When we hear stories of the abuse of power of attorney document, we’re often amazed at the gall and boldness that accompany the actions of the attorney in fact (the person who is appointed on the power of attorney document). One of the main reasons that Aunt Gertrude chose her niece Milly (our two fictitious characters for purposes of this blog) as her attorney in fact was that she trusts Milly to do the right thing.

An attorney in fact has a duty of loyalty to the person who appointed her (the principal). So Milly owes a duty of loyalty to […]

What If My Attorney In Fact Moves Out Of State?

2017-11-15T15:59:13-05:00August 29th, 2012|Attorney in Fact|

In today’s mobile society, not too many of us stay in one place anymore. So how does that affect our choice on our power of attorney document? Your attorney-in-fact (the person you normally refer to as your ‘power of attorney’) probably lived nearby when you drafted your power of attorney document. What happens when they move away?

Let’s apply this to Aunt Gertrude and her niece Milly (and if you don’t know who they are, back up from today’s blog and follow their adventures from earlier blogs).

Aunt Gertrude is being helped by her niece Milly. Aunt Gertrude can still get around, […]

How to Confront Power of Attorney Abuse

2017-11-15T15:59:13-05:00August 1st, 2012|Abuse|

You recall that in our vignettes, Aunt Gertrude has appointed her niece Milly as her attorney-in-fact through the Power Of Attorney document. With just that as a background, think of your own family and acquaintances — Have any of you reading this ever been guilty of making any of these statements:

  • – “Does Aunt Gertrude understand that she is the one in charge, not her ‘power of attorney’ [Editor’s note: the correct terminology is ‘her attorney in fact’] Milly?
  • – “Why does Aunt Gertrude allow Milly to take advantage of her like that?”

Or how about these statements?

  • – “I am going to explain […]

What to Do When the Power of Attorney is Being Abused

2017-11-15T15:59:13-05:00July 16th, 2012|Power of Attorney Abuse|

Here is my synopsis of what happened to another “Aunt Gertrude,” but this time, unfortunately, it is a sad but true example of what I have been writing. Today our paper reported that it was a great niece.. You may agree with me that there is nothing so “great” about this niece:

“A woman stole more than $300,000 from her elderly aunt. In April 2010 the York County
Area Agency on Aging received a complaint that an elderly woman, who resided at the
Brunswick of Longstown personal care home was being financially exploited.”

Let me just break in here and say “Bravo” for the […]

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