Power of Attorney Abuse

Troubled by POA Abuse? Hear the outrageous stories we never saw coming, as well as what to do when they’re happening to you. You aren’t alone anymore.

Senior Citizen Abuse Without A Scratch

2017-11-15T15:59:53-05:00April 13th, 2011|Abuse|

When you hear the phrase “Senior Citizen Abuse” your mind conjures up an image. That’s the way our minds work. When I say “dog,” you don’t think of the letters D – O – G. You picture a dog. If I say “Big brown dog” your image changes. “Big brown muddy-pawed snarling dog” and it changes again, and so on.

I want to paint you a new picture of “Senior Citizen Abuse.” Or perhaps an alternative to the picture you now have. This Senior Citizen Abuse doesn’t include being yelled at by a mean step-sister. It doesn’t […]

Power of Attorney: When is the Right Time to Appoint an Attorney In Fact?

2017-11-15T15:59:53-05:00March 16th, 2011|Power of Attorney Abuse|

Power of Attorney: When is the Right Time to Appoint an Attorney In Fact?

The simplest answer to that question is “right now.” We sometimes don’t like facing certain things because of the consequences we might face. Like the man who refuses to go to the doctor because he is afraid the doctor will tell him he has high cholesterol and will want him to change his diet. So he refuses. Later he dies of a massive heart attack. Or the person who does not want to know what those unopened bank statements say. And they lose their house and their […]

Abuse of Power of Attorney – Is the Fox Guarding the Hen House?

2017-11-15T15:59:53-05:00March 3rd, 2011|Power of Attorney Abuse|

When an attorney in fact (the person who is appointed as the agent through the power of attorney document) walks into the investment adviser’s office and says “My Aunt Gertrude would like to change the beneficiary on her investment accounts,” is she taking an action that she is allowed to take?

If Aunt Gertrude has executed a power of attorney document and named Minny as her attorney in fact, then the answer is very likely a resounding YES! Consider the following exchange:
Financial Advisor: “And who might you be?”

Attorney In Fact: “I’m Minny, my Aunt Gertrude’s Power of Attorney” (they always call […]

Power Of Attorney: How do I choose the right person?

2017-11-15T16:00:04-05:00March 3rd, 2011|Power of Attorney Abuse|

What does “attorney in fact” mean?
Before we address the how of making this choice, a little nomenclature lesson is in order. The person you choose will be your “attorney in fact” and not your “power of attorney.” So if Aunt Mildred appoints Milly, then Milly is her attorney in fact, not her power of attorney. You will hear people say “He is my power of attorney,” when in fact what they should be saying is “He is my attorney in fact.” And, not that it matters in this discussion, but I have learned that there are a few judges who […]

Abuses of Power of Attorney

2017-11-15T16:00:04-05:00February 7th, 2011|Power of Attorney Abuse|

Abuses of Power Of Attorney – What to do and not to do (and a little of what to look for)

When I speak to groups of professionals who deal with seniors, I often ask about abuse. I will ask if anyone has seen a person who is holding the power of attorney for another (called the agent or attorney in fact) abuse that power. Without exception, I see the heads nod, usually accompanied by a look of sadness, like the grimace of a dull pain. I then ask “How many of you have been involved in actively pursuing the abuser?” […]

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